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Monday – Friday: 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.Two days, or a weekendLicensed in OKVirginia Raya, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) · OK Lic. # 000000(405) 555-0104

Your first session

What happens before, during and after

Your first session is the planning call. The first morning of an intensive follows.

  • 01

    Before: the planning call

    Half an hour with Virginia, with both of you on the line. You choose dates, talk through travel and childcare, and say what you each hope for. Virginia explains how confidentiality works between two people. You do not fill in forms about your health.

  • 02

    During: the first morning

    You arrive, settle in and talk. Virginia asks each of you what you want from the days and sets a pace you can both keep. Either of you can ask for a break at any time.

  • 03

    After: the first evening

    The evening is yours. There is no homework. Many couples walk, eat and rest, and some talk about the day and some do not.

The room

A room with the lamps on

Low light, a deep sofa, a table for water and tea. You have the room to yourselves for the whole of each day.

There is water and tea on the table, and a quiet place to step out for a few minutes. If either of you has an access need, tell Harper on the planning call.

Afternoon light from a window falling on a peach wall above a desk with a laptop